The 33 year old, who recently hit back at cheating claims after a change to their dance off, said her Instagram direct messages section is completely “dry” since she started competing on the BBC show.
“Oh my gosh, my direct messages are dry,” she shared. “I’ve not had one direct message from a potential suitor, that is not happening.”
AJ believes she knows exactly why this has happened though, as she said everyone has been watching her steamy routines with Kai, from the Tango to the American Smooth.
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She added: “He’s witnessed me wrap my legs around Kai every single week!”
AJ, whose dance partner’s Instagram recently got hacked as trolls asked fans for money, went on to gush over Kai, 26, as she declared he’s “going to be in my life forever”.
She told The Sun: “We just have the best time. He’s a family man, he’s someone who takes care of his family, his friends. He’s a real gentleman. He really, really is.
“And I think that’s what’s beautiful about him as well. I feel like we share the same ethics, in the same way that I’m speaking to my mum before the show, he’s got his mum and dad on FaceTime and his grandad before the show, his brother. I kind of feel part of his family.”
AJ and Kai’s salsa didn’t quite go to plan last weekend, with the pair making a mistake towards the end of the routine.
The couple were given their lowest score yet at just 30 by the judges and ended up in the dance off against Dan Walker and his partner Nadiya.
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The pair managed to keep their spot on the show after they were saved by judges, but according to OK!‘s source, the scrape with the bottom two “knocked” AJ and Kai’s confidence and caused a few tears.
OK!‘s source explained: “Their confidence has been knocked. It’s always difficult when you’re in the dance off, there were lots of tears after but that’s the game and there can only be one winner.”
However, OK!‘s source went on to explain that the couple are helping each other through their tricky week and are determined to come back fighting this weekend.
“They’re helping each other through it and are trying to ignore all the press and negative comments,” the source said.
“They just to want concentrate on the dance and take the criticism as a positive.”
OK! has reached out to representatives of both parties for comment.
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